I recently returned from a trip to Asheville, NC.  My friend gave birth to baby girl, Ruby, and I went to assist during her partner's first week back to work.  There were many complications.  My friend nearly died from complications following a C-section birth.  Initially she had a midwife and planned a drug-free, water birth, but because of the baby being posterior this just didn't work out.  After twelve days spent in the hospital, with some of that time spent in a coma, my friend needed much more help than we'd originally thought.  Problem was--I ended up being very sick for two weeks and couldn't go near the baby.  So my trip to Asheville looked like this:
--Thought head would explode on airplane.
--Made some food, did some dishes, did some laundry, cleaned some floors, read aloud.
--Went downtown one day, bought some books, ate a portobello mushroom sandwich and drank a smoothie.  
--Went to an interesting cafe called Outspoken.  Saw some lesbians.  Got very nervous.  Worked on my teaching philosophy.
--Drank a beer at a nearby pub.  Thought it made me feel better.  Played a game of pool.
--Cried over the intensity of love between my friend and her partner.  Cooed over the baby that I couldn't really help with.  They are a beautiful family, and they look like this:
 
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